
1 Peter 3:3-4 “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of fine jewelry and clothes. Instead it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
Now, I know that is easier read than done! I have been all too familiar with the struggles of constantly thinking and worrying about my appearance. I struggled for years with low self-esteem and not thinking I was ever pretty enough, smart enough, loved enough, etc. I came dangerously close to an eating disorder and I had such low self-esteem that I could barely look people in the eye when speaking to them. I never wanted to attend any functions or parties. I was convinced that people didn’t like me or want me around. What bondage!! Thank God that He made a way for me to escape this thinking ..and He made a way for you too!
So how do you become free? Whether your struggle is great or small, the answer is in the Word of God. You must commit to taking those negative thoughts captive! If we don’t conquer these thoughts, we are tricked into really believing that these terrible things we are thinking are true! What does that mean exactly? It means that every time you have a bad thought about yourself (no matter how true you think it is!), you replace it with a scripture. It’s really so simple. Now the devil will try and trick you into thinking that whatever you are thinking is true – this is where the struggle is – but you have to press on and say aloud what the Bible says about you. Speak it out loud and also meditate on it in your heart. The more you do this, the less often those thoughts will come. Pretty soon they will be gone and you will be walking in freedom and victory!
One thing I have learned on this topic is that you can’t and won’t walk in God’s perfect plan for your life until you embrace who He has made you to be. His hands are tied until you surrender and make a choice to believe Him and not your thoughts. You can miss out on His plan and waste years of your life going around the same mountain. Make a choice today to surrender yourself and give your thoughts over to who you are in Christ.
Here are some scriptures for you to confess and meditate on as you embrace who He made you to be:
Psalm 139:14 I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
John 16:27 The Father Himself tenderly loves me
Luke 12:24 I am valuable, appreciated, cherished, precious and important
Col. 1:22 I am without fault or failure in His sight
Deut. 28:13 I am the head and not the tail, I am above only and not beneath
Phil 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which gives me strength
Eph 1:6 I am accepted in the Beloved
Song of Solomon 4:7 I am all together beautiful and there is no flaw in me
By: Rita Cirullo