
Have you ever been around a group of people and yet felt alone? I know I have felt that way before. Perhaps it was because you may not know anyone or are afraid to start a conversation. Either way, it can be uncomfortable. When it comes to being social, we can all learn new things. For instance, you may be someone who gets really nervous and insecure around other people or perhaps you are super comfortable and end up saying too much or the wrong thing!
Here are some pointers that may help you:
- Be Open - that includes your facial expression, posture, your attitude (Proverbs 15:13, 27:17)
- Be Kind in what you say & how you say it (1 Corinthians 13:4)
- Always keep your conversation pure and avoid gossip (Proverbs 11:13, 16:28, 20:19 & 22:11)
- Be a Friend (Proverbs 11:30, 18:24)
- Don’t allow fear to stop you from being you! (2 Timothy 1:17)
- You can do it! (Philippians 4:13)
Now the most important thing to remember about being social is …. Drum roll please…. Christ Jesus lives in you! (Galatians 2:20) This is super important, because when others are around you; they are around Christ that is in you! Again, that takes the pressure off you… Let your light shine girly!!
When I moved to Chicago from Tennessee, I knew literally a hand full of people at my new school. Normally, I would have just sat and waited for people to come to me & ask to be my friend… but this time I made a decision. I decided to step out of my comfort zone and be friendly to all who I met. I would introduce myself and make conversation with people. Guess what!! It worked! I met so many people because I changed the way I thought and fought back against the fear that tried to keep me secluded to myself. Not only did I make a lot of new friends, I got to minister to so many people because I knew them!! J How cool is that!
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